Tuesday, 18 April 2017

Another Extraordinary East End Gallery Easter


What a surprise. Finding myself in the complaints line, again, for Centrelink has provided me with an unexpected opportunity to write this post. This is a far more useful and rewarding activity than wondering if my life will terminate before I reach the head of the queue.

I must admit that I am rather weary today. Michael has headed to the Big Smoke to begin the necessary distribution of his Dad's belongings with his sister and brother. We both felt that the siblings alone should decide the outcome of Lucky's personal and household items.

My failure to launch is wholly due to opening the East End Gallery for six days straight. Easter in Beverley is the beginning of our tourism season that runs until the hot weather makes its inevitable reappearance. We were delighted with the number of guests, their enthusiasm, their praise for the Gallery and their pleasant surprise of finding a Gallery such as ours in a regional town.

And we have welcomed new artists. The dynamic Paul Kendall, who has family in Cuballing, has gained the mantle of our third metal artist. Since he retired as an English teacher, he has decided to devote himself to creating pieces of art. And given his story telling and wordsmith abilities, he is tremendously entertaining as well. Due to my Dad's influence, I had felt that I had a reasonable grasp of English. Paul's vocabulary has put me firmly back in my place and reminded me to keep learning.

Sharon Ellis is another new artist from York. One-half of "Dark Sunshiny Days" Gallery, she and fellow artist Jane Gates have had to shut up shop due to financial constraints. We are delighted that Sharon has joined us and we hope to include some of Jane's pieces in the very near future. Sharon's art is at once scary, jaw-dropping and hilarious all at the same time.

Jan George has added some marvellous screen printed and linocut pieces to the Gallery to show more of her tremendous talent. Once more, our beautiful Gallery is bulging at the seams. We are even displaying one of Tim Burns' astounding paintings once more as he has yet to come and collect it from our store room.

Saturday evening was our Sundowner. These events are becoming traditional for us during most long weekends. A chance to enjoy a vino, a canape, music, company and of course our artists' efforts in a relaxed and unhurried way. Our next scheduled Sundowner falls at the beginning of June, so we will be adding an open fire to the mix. Ooh, did someone say "mulled wine"? Now there's a thought.

We finally threw out our last guests yesterday afternoon at five-thirty. Our last two groups were fortunate enough to partake of some vino as my feet had demanded pain relief and I was sipping a cheeky little Sem Sav Blanc. Exceedingly civilised.

Today and tomorrow are my days off. Vanessa has held the fort over the last week. Now I must endure the endless cacophony of washing and washing-up, of hanging out and bringing in clothes and keeping my eyes firmly on the Problem Child and the Delinquent Grand Old Dame.

Thursday back in the Gallery is looking decidedly more exciting.


Paul Kendall - "Heroes and Villains"


"Bat out of Hell"


"Fistic Des Pas Deux"


"Atlas", "Sysuphus" and "Still Life"


Sharon Ellis - "Nullarbor Sinkhole"


"The Gatekeeper"


"The Keeper"


"Winstan and Posey"


The Grand Old Dame and the Problem Child


Sun goddesses both


The Three Stooges on a well-earned break...

Saturday, 15 April 2017

Our Mediterranean House is Born.

What a day of awe and wonder. What a fantastic outcome. A dream come true. Our house is painted. Naturally, as we are quiet retiring types, our house reflects us. So we have created an absolute riot of colour. We will be living in a work of art.

Michael steeled himself for an early start. He was vertical, coffeed, fed and not happy by nine o'clock. Gary, trusty second in command, arrived to take his Grumpiness in hand. Gary, whose trade is an industrial painter, has an array of gizmos designed to make painting large surfaces as quick and painless as possible.

Needless to say, the boring preparation had to be accomplished first. Gap filler was applied, duct tape was added to strategic spots and windows were covered. Scaffolding was arranged in the appropriate places. Then the airless spray gun began its magic.

By three o'clock, we had a fully painted house (except for one smallish area of Carona, as we ran out of paint). A busy day in the East End Gallery prevented me from checking on the progress as often as I would have liked. When I stepped out the back door of the workshop in the glorious mid-afternoon, I was blasted by a wall of brilliant colour. Forget about the Wall of Sound. We have a house that sings to the world.

Michael was absolutely spent. Thus, his ill humour returned, but I understood he was tired and sore. I just laughed at him after a minor spat. He was not amused. In spite of this slight inconvenience, we proceeded to have a marvellous meal at the Red Vault with John, Jacqueline, Greg and the divine Jan.

On returning home, I surrendered my bedroom water bottle to Michael and gave him a tablet. He was out like a light. And he slept well. Even better, This morning, he has reverted to his usual placid amiable self. However, he will be eating humble pie to Vanessa when she surfaces. And ask very nicely for some grooming as he is currently resembling the Wild Man from Borneo.

This post needs to come to a close. The East End Gallery is beckoning me. We have a fantastic day planned. Open until nine o'clock tonight and with a Sundowner starting at four o'clock, we can guarantee wonderful art, genial company and cheap and cheerful vino.

In the meantime, I need to clarify the colours of our new home. Station House is not an Eagles house. She is the epitome of a Mediterranean house with inspiration provided by the amazing works of Vincent Van Gogh. The Colour Police may tutt-tutt about our choices of "Mystification" and "Carona". That is their prerogative.

To quote the inimitable Billy Connolly, Station House does not and will not have a "beige" bone in her body.

So, join us today in the East End Gallery, take a peek at our house and relax with drinks and nibbles.
Or join us anytime over Easter. We look forward to meeting all our guests.





















Thursday, 13 April 2017

Playing Elastics with (Demented, Defiant and Deaf) Dogs...

Back in the age of the dinosaurs, I played some quite obscure games during my primary school years. We used to jump rope and play hopscotch and test our foot-eye coordination by the prowess of elastics. Two girls at each end holding the elastic apart with their legs at knee height. Scissor in, scissor out with a variety of set moves jumping in, out and on the elastic oval.  Needless to say, I was never much good at this game.

We are now four months into our tenure in the Residence. The length of our stay is starting to be irksome. This has nothing to do with the actual living conditions, which are reasonably cosy in the diminishing warmth of autumn. We are lucky enough to have both a remarkably efficient oil heater and the choice of firing up the pot belly stove if the weather turns colder.

The painful reality is being provided but not only Ruby the Problem Child but Sascha the Tottering Blunderdog as well. Ruby is well known for her cunning, her persistence and her complete focus on replenishing her stomach at all costs. She has been noted checking out the bins behind the bottom pub, strolling with purpose around town and behaving with unwavering resolve in her quest to track down any delicious morsels that tempt her exceedingly warped tastes.

Sascha has changed somewhat in her character since December. She used to be utterly reliable at staying within the confines of the property. Not anymore. As the year has advanced, she has developed some rather annoying habits. Part of the issue is her unreliability with her waterworks. No longer can she cross her legs and wait until morning. So we can no longer leave her contained inside the Residence. If we do, we face a canine urine evacuation the size of Noah's Flood. So, in her twilight years, and developing cataracts, she also has increasing signs of deafness, defiance or dementia. Bollocks.

Now we deal with both the Beagle and the Blunderdog taking off on expeditions of curiosity and gluttony.  We seek them here, we seek them there, we seek them everywhere.  We are trying as much as we can to keep the girls contained. We often spend time with our eyes as wide as possible, trying to track the Dynamic Duo as they seek to escape the tenuous confines of our imaginary boundaries.

Which brings to this morning. Sascha had been returned to our humble home by the inimitable Julie Paull last evening. She had been discovered strolling the main drag. We had squirmed with embarrassment. Thus we had decided to keep the the Determinedly Delinquent Duo under house arrest. Or we would die trying.

When I awoke, the Blunderdog was contentedly snoozing on the large dog bed with her lover, the Jack Russell. The Beagle was tied to the bedpost. All three trundled outside. Ruby engaged in the longest wee known to man. Both Pip and Sascha marked her expanding puddle before she had finished. Then came morning treats - pigs' ears for the girls and chicken tenders for Pip.

I then tied the offending pair onto leads to prevent any absconding. Following their imprisonment, I attempted to undertake the dishes. Both the Femmes Fatales seemed to take great delight in tangling me amongst their leads. Suddenly I was transported back to playing elastics in primary school. How to jump, how to plant my feet, how to scissor, how to enter, how to exit. I did manage to disentangle myself without mishap and finish the cleansing of the dishes skilfully avoiding the mayhem of dogs and leads.

An absolute miracle. Until the next time.




How each morning begins...



Except for Madame Cat (sod off you peasants).


The Problem Child on her lead...


Thus begins a brand new version of elastics!

Warning! Warning!


Let the fun commence!


On the way to entanglement, Ruby hones her gynaecology skills...


whilst Sascha suffers in silence and Pip is rewarded for his good behaviour (no lead!).



Sunday, 9 April 2017

The Joy of Being Alive

The last couple of weeks have been very grim. Lucky's final illness and the circumstances of his death affected us profoundly. We had both seen death before but this did not and could not prepare us for the reality of what happened to Lucky.

So we were left exhausted, emotional and unsettled. Our routine of home, the Gallery and the gentle repetitiveness of our lives vanished into the ether. We spent those ten days going backwards and forwards between the hospital and Beverley, sleeping over some of the nights and not being able to predict the sequence of events. Death was coming to take Lucky - we just didn't know when.

His funeral was last Thursday. We all said our goodbyes. Michael was courageous and humble, quietly shattered but extraordinarily composed. His tribute to his Dad was told as simple snippets of gratitude and love. I could not have been prouder of him.

We did not open the Gallery on Friday. Instead, we decided to be kind to ourselves. We watched the roof being installed on our house. That spectacle was surprisingly engrossing and brought us back to the here and now. Suddenly, a bit of excitement and wonder had returned to our lives.

Then we opened the East End Gallery for the first time since mid-March. A new artist and her paintings to hang. A new catalogue and new numbering to complete. Interesting and delighted guests and a few sales. A chance for Michael to teach a young man some welding skills to repair a component of a quad bike. Lining up a new metal artist for Easter. And networking with one of our visitors to sort out a tedious water issue. All in all, a most pleasing couple of days.

I rediscovered joy over the weekend. The thrill of our new home's construction. Good friends dropping in for a chat, a vino and laughter. Entertaining two children with our artists' table whilst Michael caught up with the accompanying adult and a close friend. Another friend dropping off an interestingly burnt and rusty metal saw stand. Even the mundaneness of catching up on the washing and the insanity of trying to watch an absconding Beagle and a demented or defiant elderly Weimaraner at the same moment has brought me back to uncomplicated pleasure.

And we have had time to catch our breath, sleep comfortably in our own bed, return to the fantastically ordinary and smile. We have read that pinnacle of journalistic achievement - the West Australian Weekend newspaper. We have been to the pub for dinner on Friday. We have watched some quite dreadful and escapist television and listened to our favourite music in the Gallery. We have revelled in sitting together in the Residence and not dreading the ringing of the phones.

This week promises to be full. We are opening the Gallery on Wednesday and continuing through the Easter weekend. Then we will plunge again into the aftermath of Lucky's life and begin the sorting, the distributing and the disposing. At least we have had this time to gather some vim, vigour and vitality. And we have tasted the joy of life again.


Lucky and Michael July 2010


Lucky and Judy 2.1.2012


The Beginning of our Roof - 7.4.2017


Introducing Sharon Ellis, our latest artist in the East End Gallery


Rediscovering the joy.


Thursday, 6 April 2017

For Dad. Love Michael.

Ten Things I loved about Lucky. (In No Particular Order).

·       Dad was always there to help me repair all those broken-down cars I had collected. And with endless good humour and patience. I distinctly remember a motor we rebuilt for the Ford Consul. The motor, unfortunately, never had a chance to live up to expectations. All because I then rolled the car.

·       Dad worked at sea on the State Ships as a marine engineer. We would wait for Dad's ship at Robb's Jetty. a boys-own paradise of sights and sounds. After the cargo of cattle was unloaded, we would board the ship between Robb's Jetty and Fremantle. Everything about the ship was really big and I loved exploring all the nooks and crannies. I was particularly fascinated by the anchor chain locker and the propeller shaft. And that on the other side of the hull was the ocean.

·       July 2010 was one of the darkest periods of my life. Kate and I were north of Perth, on the bush block at Wanerie. I'd had a breakdown and was anxious, desperately sad and skeletal. Dad, at the age of 83, drove up to Wanerie, slept on a camp bed with a swag and stayed for three days. He came to look after me, to spend time with me, and support me.

·       Dad was always there in my younger and wilder days as well, bailing me out of trouble with the law on more than one occasion. And he never dumped guilt on me.

·       Whilst I was working in Port Hedland, as a reasonably fresh and not particularly eager mechanical fitter, Dad allowed me, after much grovelling, to borrow his beloved Holden HQ station wagon and trailer to take my 900 Kawasaki from Port Hedland to Carnarvon for repairs. I rewarded his faith in me by abandoning his prized car on the return trip after I hit a kangaroo on the Port Hedland side of Whim Creek late at night. At least the bike was repaired so I was able to complete the journey home.

·       With three weeks to finish on my apprenticeship, Dad talked me out of quitting in order to become a landscape gardener. 

     During yet another period I wanted to throw in my apprenticeship, Dad took me under his wing to work with him at the seafood works in Exmouth. He really did have to intervene fairly frequently to keep me on track.

     When I was working at Port Hedland Hospital as a mechanical fitter, I lived in the Green House at the entrance to the harbour. I would wave to Dad as he worked on the tugs heading out to sea to bring in the iron ore carriers.

    Dad's cautious and sedate driving was legendary within the family. Then came the day he was booked for speeding on Mount's Bay Road. He had failed to notice the 40 kilometres an hour road works sign and was clocked at nearly 70 kilometres an hour. He was almost labelled a hoon driver. That may have been Lucky's only blemish as a driver of sixty years. What a hero!
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·       The last ten days of his life were mostly filled with shared memories and lots of laughter. The best conversation I had with Dad whilst he was in hospital was telling him how much I loved him and that he was the best Dad in the world.

Dilemmas

This morning, our family gathered to farewell Lucky. Given his amiable, sincere and honest nature, the funeral service was absolutely packed. Michael wrote a beautiful tribute to his Dad -  but he was concerned the flood of memories may have overwhelmed him.

First dilemma. I had gently reminded him of this task for a day or so. If he did or he didn't compose a written piece for Lucky was irrelevant to me. The love and respect Michael has for his Dad is wound into his heart and soul. In the end, he dictated the words he wished to say to me last night.  He just wanted to express these emotions without breaking down. We organised a contingency plan. Which he didn't need. I was so proud of him.

These posts about Lucky's last days and his death I have composed has caused some angst. Lucky was a self-reliant and private person. And I understand that. But he was important. He counted. As a man who would have done anything for his family and friends, I believe he would have been distressed by the ordeal of his last day and would not want anybody else to suffer as he suffered.

Second dilemma. How much do I share? I have bitten the bullet and posted on this blog, on Facebook and I have written to the hospital, the Health Minister and the ABC. There will be those who believe I should not have gone to these lengths. However, I have been overwhelmed by the level of positive support I have received. And all the other stories that demand attention.

What happened to Lucky should not have occurred. We were promised dignity and comfort for him. This was not forthcoming. There was no palliative care plan for Lucky. Midland Hospital does not offer palliative care services. This has been confirmed by the hospital's Consumer Liaison. All to do with funding.

Yet, I have read and heard stories of peaceful deaths within hospital settings. If peaceful deaths can occur in hospital settings, why is this not the normal course of events?

Third dilemma. Death, although the end for us all, is still a taboo subject. Those of us who watch our loved ones experience more comfortable deaths are relieved and thankful for their lack of suffering. Those of us who witness the cries, the terminal restlessness and the obvious trauma of other deaths, such as my beloved father-in-law, are left devastated by these experiences.

I accept that I may be viewed as both whistle-blower and pariah.  But I am driven to follow justice. And I need to speak whilst my memories are raw and clear and savage.  If I remain quiet and honour Lucky's privacy above all else, then these awful deaths will be accepted as reasonable. When they are not.

And the total absence of comfort and dignity that Lucky experienced will be in vain.


Monday, 3 April 2017

For Lucky

To Whom This May Concern

My darling father in law died at five o'clock in the afternoon of 28 March. His death was not unexpected due to increasing frailty and the conditions of being elderly. What was unexpected was the traumatic nature of his personal path towards death.
He had been admitted to the Intensive Care Unit on 18 March via Midland Hospital’s Emergency Department. Initially given a very bleak prognosis, he seemed to rally for twenty-four hours. However, this rally could not be sustained and he embarked on a long slow deterioration.
He was given medication to support his blood pressure and heart rate. Daily blood tests painted a poor picture. As long as he remained on a drug regime that needed to be closely monitored, he remained in ICU. Faint hope for recovery gave way to the unpleasant inevitable – he was not going to survive this final admission.
Five days on, he became very anxious, battling to understand what was happening to him. A day of verbal accusations and uncharacteristic behaviour illustrated his fear and frustration. Here was a vulnerable elderly man facing death.
Weaning him off the supporting infusions took time. He was eating very little, drinking not much more and becoming increasingly agitated at night. Whilst he remained in ICU, there were nurses available to tend to him and give comfort to his family.
One of the consultants on ICU whom we liked and trusted talked a great deal about three words - comfort, dignity and family.
She assured us that he would be treated in a palliative environment that would concentrate on keeping him comfortable and dignified.
On March 27, he was transferred to an adjacent ward. Placed in a room accessed through an airlock, (an infectious setting?) the staff appeared to have received very little information and openly stated they were unsure how to nurse him. The first nurse we saw expressed outright frustration with the lack of a plan. We were quite astonished when we were questioned for his history by the ward’s registrars. Then, one of the registrars also remarked that this was the time to say goodbye.
My husband and I had agreed to stay with him overnight. There had been other family members coming in and out during the day. We were then informed that the nursing staff would no longer be performing observations. Unless we rang the nurses' bell, there would be minimal nursing support. All his drip lines had been removed in ICU. This was unfortunate as he became increasing unable to swallow.
We realised that he would need a line inserted for pain medications. And so it began.
As that final evening wore on, he became increasingly vocal and agitated. He was thrashing around in his bed, hitting his unprotected legs repeatedly into the bed rails. He also pushed his legs past the bed rails and needed one of us to place his legs back onto his bed as gently as possible. His purple fingers were curling inwards and clutching the rails like a terrified animal. We were concerned he might actually throw himself out of the bed.
With the intervention of the outstanding ward co-ordinator, we had been provided with two recliner chairs. But sleep was impossible for any of us.
He moaned and cried and tossed and turned. Around midnight, we requested drugs to help his obvious distress. A subcutaneous line was inserted into his abdomen. The last word we heard him say was "ow".
Then the night nurses expressed their concern about giving him too much hydromorphone. We were incredulous.
We requested extra medication. After an hour, the nurses gave him a calmative as well as another half dose of hydromorphone. We were berated for ringing the bell. One of the night nurses complained she had eight patients to look after and the other nurse had seven patients. We were asked - "Do you know it's only half an hour since you rang the bell?"
When he needed his pad changed, two of the night nurses spoke forcefully to him to let go of the bed rails. They moved him backwards and forwards like a sack of potatoes. We struggled to recognise any decency in their treatment of him.
We then asked for an urgent review by the night doctor and an increase in his medication. This was refused. Finally, another dose of hydromorphone started to sooth him. Or he was spent. Sometime between three and four o'clock in the morning, his cries became softer and subsided and his body ceased his frantic movements.
One of the night nurses was outstanding in her compassion. She listened empathetically to us in those grim small hours of the last night, offered us a cup of tea and coffee and obviously spoke to the other nurses about their lack of care. Around four thirty, one of the other nurses came into the room, washed his face and swabbed his mouth.
We both slept fitfully for a couple of hours. Morning shift began. My sister-in-law arrived. We were shattered. We grabbed tea and coffee in the cafe. My husband was so upset he could not return to his Dad’s room. We decided to go home for a sleep. I collected our gear from that isolated outpost and we drove away, grieving not for his approaching death but for what had been the last night of his life.
My sister-in-law rang us to let us know when he died. We were incredibly sad. And we were so angry. Where had been his comfort and dignity that we had been promised? After nine days in ICU, he was taken and effectively dumped in a place that wasn't prepared to receive him and didn't know what to do with him or us. And his last night on earth was harrowing for both him and us.
Here is a summary of our concerns –
·         Why was my father-in-law taken from ICU to a public ward that did not cater for terminally ill patients?
·         Why were all lines removed from his body in ICU when he needed another line inserted later? This procedure only added to his distress and discomfort.
·         Why was my father-in-law not transferred to the Private Hospital as was his request?
·         Where was the nursing support that we required to care for a dying man?
·         Why was there such reluctance to give him adequate medication to sooth his very obvious distress?
·         Midland Hospital (public and private) does not list palliative care as one of their services? If not, why not?
·         Why were there insufficient nurses on Ward 1B to cater to a dying man? We believe that there should be mandatory checking of the patient and family at least once at hour during this time.
·         Why did we have to beg for a medical review and additional medication? Why was this review and additional medication refused?
·         Why was my father-in-law reduced to terminal restlessness before his body finally relented and he fell into unconsciousness for his remaining hours?

Midland Public Hospital is administered by St John of God, a Catholic organisation. We are concerned that their religious dogma may dictate the care of patients. The dignity and comfort he had been offered was completely lacking. We saw only resistance and excuses.
Midland Hospital is not a hospital for all. The former premier, Mr Barnett, has compromised the health of Western Australians (particularly the Wheatbelt catchment) in agreeing to the terms for the administration of this hospital.