Saturday, 3 December 2016

Baby Steps with Santa

My darling Dad is not a social animal by nature. He has always been happiest within Mum's orbit, even at difficult times during their sixty-six years of marriage. So, with his solitary habits - mainly reading these days - he could easily become very isolated. So yesterday, I did a teeny weeny bit of pushing.

The Christmas Care Centre lunch was a lively affair. A pretty good entertainer singing all the Golden Oldies, a superb lunch orchestrated by the outstanding staff, families in attendance and Santa arriving were the highlights. Dad was not entirely comfortable, as his lack of hearing becomes worse with lots of background noise.

He did enjoy his lunch. And he did smile. And I did touch him and stroke him. And we made conversation when possible. And he allowed himself to be dragged into a photo with me, posing with Santa (John, one of the residents in full regalia).

After lunch, we showed him the plans for our house. He was very interested. And we set out on a walk. Almost a bridge too far. But with several rests, he managed to get back into his room. I hope he enjoyed a well-deserved snooze. We certainly did.

Today, I intend on taking over some more of his belongings to be labelled. Beautiful soft rugs, pillow slips and towels. His dressing gown. I want to go through his clothes so I know if he needs anything. Michael will keep him entertained with photos on our computer. And Dad likes talking with Michael. Another bonus.

And I intend to work on a step that may involve another bit of bullying on my part. Dad feels the cold. He is always overdressed. And the dining room is air conditioned. But in his room and if he sits outside, he would be warmer. I am going to ask the staff to work with me on a compromise about clothes. No jumper in his room. If he gets cold, he might take a little walk and sit in the sun. And that could move him out of the safety of the cocoon of his room back into the world just a little.

In the meantime, I'm going to love him. Lots.











Yesterday's Christmas lunch.

Friday, 2 December 2016

Two Days of Miracles and Wonders

Sadness and joy. Lost and found. A splintered family reunited. Memories flooding to the surface. These are the legacies of my Mum's death and the funeral service, which was actually a celebration of her life.

My brother Simon arrived early after a swift trip south from Bundaberg in his SUV. Currently a bachelor, his car was the perfect reflection of this more relaxed lifestyle. A boot untidily packed, his personal effects tossed in carelessly. Simon was and always will be a true individual. Very quirky, with frequent outbursts of firm opinions, a slapstick sense of humour and a marked resemblance to the Cheshire Cat. Simon's slightly smug grin is what I remember most about him. Having said that, he is genuinely affectionate, calling me "Sis" and enveloping me in giant bear hugs.

Simon's divinely gorgeous daughter, Catherine and her husband Heath made the trek up to the Sunshine Coast as well, arriving well in time at the Funeral Directors' pleasant, if cool surroundings. She has been the niece I have known best and I was delighted that she and Heath had made the trip.

David and Kerin had arrived the day before. David is the most familiar of my brothers and another eccentric. Loud, bombastic and universally cheerful, I nicknamed him "Captain" after about five minutes and saluted him at all times possible. Kerin was like a dinghy in his wake, his reliable Executive Officer, and continued to beaver away in the kitchen to keep us all fed and watered. She was astonishing and I occasionally felt that the Captain needed a good kick up the backside to notice her heroic logistical deeds. To put up with David, and love him, makes her priceless.

But my brother Michael was who I had longed for. That I was going to see him again after an absence of nearly forty years was mind blowing. All at once, swept up in his embrace, I became his little sister again. We spent a lot of time together, walking and talking, visiting Dad, filling in the gaps. And even though I was woken by their raucous conversation, my brother and husband  (my Michaels) delighted me with their instantaneous bond of friendship.

I will never lose my brother Michael ever again.

I spent some quiet time with my Mum before the service. She was breathtakingly beautiful and dressed in her favourite bright coloured clothes. I touched her, stroked her hair, kissed her and had a final intimate conversation with her. I told her I loved her very much. The scent of an exquisite flower arrangement filled the air around us.

Mum's funeral was sweet and simple. Dad was serene and stoic, thanking all those who spoke with love of her. David and Simon both spoke as well, as I did. Emotions were high. I was holding myself together reasonably well until Simon's breaking voice and David's flooding tears of grief. Bollocks. So I let rip too.

We all returned to the little villa. Once more, memories and much laughter were the overriding sentiments. I was shattered and in bed by seven o'clock.

Simon, Catherine and Heath had left in the late afternoon. David, Kerin and Michael spent an easy morning with us (except Kerin, who once more took control of the kitchen!). We talked and sat together. The boys and Kerin took turns visiting Dad. My brother Michael and I drank up each other, knowing time was passing.

They all left us at lunch time. My beloved husband had been my anchor throughout this time. Once more, we were exhausted. We retired to bed for a long afternoon kip.

Lastly, I had some marvellous alone time with my Dad. He is a little lost and very passive. Before we leave, I will do my utmost to give him a little more get up and go. He is no fool and he is capable of doing much more than he is at present. Because we have all promised to see him in the next year.

In honour and love to you, Mum.


Before the funeral - David, Michael and Simon with me.


The Hosking Family...


rather like the Addams Family!


having been like the Swiss Family Robinson (lost at sea)


Not anymore!


Welcome to the Hosking Family Heath ( on far left)!






Back at the ranch...


Final photos for this time.

Wednesday, 30 November 2016

Some Other Place, Somewhere, Some Other Time

Michael and I survived the trip east with the help of a sedative (for me), an array of reasonable airline food, some in flight entertainment and his beloved DSLR camera. Heading out of Brisbane in our zippy hire car, we endured bumper to bumper traffic for an hour before we could finally pick up some speed and put the Big Smoke behind us.

We arrived in the late afternoon at Mum's lovely little villa within the confines of the retirement village. We immediately dumped our gear and went to find Dad in the Care Centre. He was alone in the communal dining room, finishing off his evening meal. As I went over to greet him, his face lit up like a Christmas tree. I touched him and stroked him and held him and cuddled him. For quite a long time.

 Michael and Dad had their own sweet conversation whilst I went in search of Dad's bedroom within the building. Comfortable, bright and functional, but missing one vital appliance. His own radio, with headphones of course. Bingo! I knew what we would get him for the great occasion of his 92nd birthday next week.

Dad was a little older, a little more battered but still with his gentle features and astonishing head of silvery white curls. We stayed with him for an hour or so before we went out to dinner at a local Thai restaurant. Then back to the villa to unpack and settle down for the night. We were absolutely shattered. I wanted to sleep well, so I wasn't taking any chances. I took a sleeping tablet and swiftly drifted off to Cloud Cuckoo Land.

I woke with a start at 2.06. I was disoriented for a while. Interesting. I felt Mum was really close. The night had cooled enough to pull up a blanket. Michael was sound asleep. I cuddled into him and returned to slumber.

Morning arrived. A gloriously cool sub-tropical dawn. Slow start. Catching up on days of e-mails and trawling through Facebook. Wondering how to start writing this post. A trip to the Cutting Edge salon, in central Coolum Beach, run by sisters Liz and Kate, to rip and tint my rampant eyebrows. In spite of becoming hopelessly lost several times and arriving hideously late for my appointment, they forgave this Wild Woman from the West and tamed my eyebrows and lip into some semblance of civility. With a hot cup of tea to boot.

Then, a lunchtime visit to Dad with history magazines and his magnifying glass. He was having physio along with two other residents. The care staff were attentive and welcoming. Once again, I held him and stroked his hair like there was no tomorrow. I returned with him to his room and set him up in his favoured chair with the mags for afternoon company. He looked like the cat that had swallowed the canary.

Better still was to come. More of the family had arrived with enough food for the Fifth Battalion. Forty years melted away as I was swept up by my brother Michael's embrace. My childhood companion and best friend had finally come back to me.

I had forgotten his enormous chocolate brown eyes were like deep pools to his soul. I had forgotten his laugh and his voice. Now, I drank him up, vowing never to lose contact with him again. We talked non-stop and I took him to see Dad. Their expressions towards each other were almost indescribable - years of absence blasted away by a tsunami of warmth and belonging and love.

I left them together and returned to the villa. En route I met the administrative staff, fearless leader Michelle and second-in-charge Karen. They gave me valuable minutes of their time just to talk with me. Years of guilt drifted away from my shoulders as I unwound with them.

Kerin had taken charge of the kitchen with extraordinary precision. She would have been quite at home running logistical support for the armed forces. David was in overall command of the good ship Hosking Family. There was endless laughter, along with much chatting and tea and fruit cake.

Later we all hopped into the little blue car and took off for some emergency supplies at the supermarket and bottle shop. The afternoon was completed by visiting one of the many lookouts over the magnificent thunder of the Pacific Ocean.

Dinner, vino, beer, talking and more laughing. A foot massage for David. I gave up attempting to finish this post as the internet was proving to be most uncooperative. Which is why I am sitting in the quietness of our second sunrise and hearing the bird song and one of my sleeping brothers. Waiting for the third brother to complete this gathering of the clan.

As we all gear up for the celebration of  Mum's life.


Back with my darling Dad.


His awesome smile.


Father and youngest son reunited.



Our Captain and his Lady in typical conservative pose.


Tuesday, 15 November 2016

Bye Mum...

Mum died sometime last night. In her kitchen without her wheelie-walker. So she fell. And nobody was with her. My Dad has been in care at their retirement village for a couple of months. I last spoke to her several weeks ago. She rang me, which was unusual for her. Maybe she knew she was on borrowed time. And in her usual mercurial style, she admitted she hadn't told Dad he was still living in their estate. She said she didn't want him popping home for lunch. So my Mum.

She'd had another fall and was confined to barracks. Because she was in pain, I tried to lighten her mood. I can still hear the echoes of her laughter in my heart as I chatted about our lives, the Three Stooges, Madame Cat and the Pirate Parrot. That was a wonderful conversation.

Shortly afterwards, Mum was admitted into a rehab facility to get her pain medication evened out. She had been home in her unit for a couple of weeks. My brother David had spoken to me about coming over to Coolum to see them. Michael and I decided we would go after settlement and hopefully around Dad's 92nd birthday. I hadn't seen either of them since April in 2012. We had not parted on great terms. They had wanted to live with us in a granny flat, then they had wanted to go back to Queensland, then they had wanted to live in Balladong Retirement Village in York and then they had wanted to build the granny flat again.  I had put my foot down. the retirement village or nothing. Mum, furious that I wouldn't follow her crazy-paving pathway, returned the two of them to the Sunshine Coast. I was torn apart by my guilt.

The last four years of her life have not been easy. Increasingly thin and frail, with Dad needing more care, they finally seemed to be getting enough in-home care. Last year, Mum was in hospital for three months whilst Dad partied in their home. He was chauffeured, supplied with dinners and enjoyed the odd glass of red and the TV at full throttle. Mum was labelled a "difficult" patient and bitterly resented her internment. Because my darling Mum never had the personal insight to see the trail of wreckage she left in her wake.

Mum was the brightest star in the universe and the Spanish Inquisition in one tiny person. I loved her, but I was frightened of her. I longed to be completely honest with her, but that enraged her. She was hugely intelligent and always doubted her talents. She wanted a happy family with lots of children but seemed incapable to consistent mothering. I never knew whether I would receive incredible warmth or extreme rejection. I lost count of the number of times I cried myself to sleep because I'd displeased her. If she was angry, she would play us off, one against the other. One of us was always on the outer. And she would give us all the silent treatment - for days, weeks, months or years.  And I was always drawn back to her like a moth to a flame.

A few weeks ago, I was reading an article on Borderline Personality Disorder in the Weekend Australian newspaper. I was absolutely mesmerised - the symptoms described all manifested in Mum. People with this disorder are often accused of malingering, of attention seeking, of grandstanding. And they feel intensely and have no locus of control. Hence they often abuse alcohol or drugs or attempt to control other aspects of their lives. They may attempt suicide to end their emotional pain. In Mum's case, she drank, smoked, appeared to have episodes of severe depression, talked about suicide and used Epsom Salts to keep herself painfully thin.

Every time she was unhappy, the family moved. I lived in ten houses in seventeen years. I changed schools five times. There were casualties along the way. My brother Michael went off the rails and has been estranged from the rest of the family for many years. I looked for stable love and married very young. Only in the last seven years have I experienced unconditional happiness with Michael.

And yet I miss her terribly. I had hoped to see her in the next month and just hold her frail little person close to me and tell her I loved her. This will not happen. Except we are still going. To see my darling Dad, hopefully alive, and feel Mum's extraordinary presence one last time.

Unfortunately, I have very few  photographs of Mum and none online. In some ways, she would like that. To maintain an air of mystery.

I love you, my darling Mum. Rest in peace.




Monday, 14 November 2016

Oh, I think I'm Going out of My Head...

Over you, over you
I want you to want me
I need you so badly
I can't think of anything but you

And I think I'm goin' out of my head
'Cause I can't explain the tears that I shed
Over you, over you
I see you each morning
But you just walk past me
You don't even know that I exist

Goin' out of my head over you
Out of my head over you
Out of my head, day and night
Night and day and night, wrong or right

I must think of a way into your heart
There's no reason why my being shy should keep us apart
And I think I'm goin' out of my head
Yes, I think I'm goin' out of my head

Goin' out of my head over you
Out of my head over you
Out of my head, day and night
Night and day and night
Wrong or right
Night and day and oh

Out of my head over you
Night and day and night
Wrong or right
Goin' out of my head, hey baby
Out of my head, goin' out of my head
Yeah yeah yeah, ooh ooh, baby
Over you, out of my head

Well, I, I think, I think, I think
I'm goin' out of my head
Well, I, I think, I think, I think
I'm goin' out of my head
Well, I, I think, I think, I think
I'm goin' out of my head
Well, I, I think, I think, I think
I'm goin' out of my head
Well, I, I think, I think, I think
I'm goin' out of my head
Well, I, I think, I think, I think
I'm goin' out of my head

Out of my head
Out of my head

I see you each morning
You just walk past me
You don't even know that I exist

Goin' out of my head over you
Out of my head over you
Out of my head
Day and night
Night and day and night
Wrong or right
Goin' out of my head
Goin' out of my head
Day and night
Goin' out of my head, ooh baby


This song is destined to become my mantra at the moment.

I received a phone call from Homeswest - sorry, the Housing Authority (what a beige name) - during the morning. Michael had just gone out the door to see the shire when the sticky brown stuff  hit the propellors of the cooling implement. Then, it was on for young and old.

The Housing Authority, bless their cotton socks, had an accommodation offer for Alex. He signed a new six-month lease agreement on his current private rental three weeks ago. He has been on the Wait List for seven years and seven months and on the Priority (no, it's not a wait list, apparently) List for two years and seven months. And after begging the powers that be if there were any accommodation offers three weeks ago, they have suddenly found a suitable property. They also insisted they had sent Alex a letter informing him of this glorious occasion. Which he hasn't received yet.

And after repeatedly asking them to contact me first, the young lady admitted she had called Alex before me. Which was why she was now ringing me because she had talked to Alex first. The mind boggles.

I was promised, again, they would use me as the primary contact for Alex. Now onto the particulars of the property. Sorry, they couldn't tell me anything, not even the suburb. By this time, I was a tad agitated. And of course, when his lease expires in May, the Housing Authority may not have a property for him...

So we are caught between the ever-present rock and the hard place. If Alex views the Housing Authority property and likes it, he has to break his private lease. Then he would be responsible for the costs of ALL the real estate agency's advertising, photos and other expenses, including ongoing rent. And then we will go through this whole fiasco in May. And he isn't allowed to sub-let - all procedures have to go through the real estate agency...

Ye Gods, somebody help me. PLEASE.


I repeat, not happy Jan...



you lot are about as useful as tits on a bull...



and you couldn't organise a piss-up in a brewery...



and this is the nicest noun I could use...


and this is why I am on anti-depressants and anti-anxiety medication!

Friday, 11 November 2016

Surprise Attack!

Due to Michael's nifty parking of Kermit adjacent to the gazebo, our bed was shaded from the early morning sun. I woke, feeling totally refreshed. The previous few months had been ragged and I had been persistently dog-tired. After a whole week away from all our responsibilities, I had regained my old vim, vigour, and vitality.

I watched Michael sleeping, not wishing to disturb him. When he was deeply asleep, all the worry lines in his face relaxed and smoothed, giving an impression of the boy he'd been. I smiled, not wanting to lose the moment. The morning was cool and breezy, ideal conditions for fossicking.

Once His Majesty was awake, we conducted all morning routines at an easy pace. Even so, we were ready to take a cruise around beautiful downtown Siberia just before ten o'clock. Whilst in Kalgoorlie, Michael had pinpointed the location of Siberia's boilers, just slightly further along the Golden Quest Discovery Trail. That seemed like an excellent spot to begin our day's activities.

Michael had taught me well. The early mining centres held an ongoing fascination and appreciation for both of us. I was enthralled by the physical remnants of the past, the ghosts who had left tantalising clues and the "Sleeping Beauty" comparison of the Goldfields woodland reclaiming the discarded towns and diggings.

Siberia's boilers were quite visible from the track once we had travelled far enough. Beyond them were the towering banks of the cyanide dams. But no evidence of head frames or other machinery or shafts to explain the presence of local gold mining that would be associated with cyanide dams. Quite the conundrum.

We mused long and hard. The boilers may be have been part of a water condensing operation, as there was precious little drinking water about. Why were the dams there if there was no processing at the site? And nearby was the wreckage of an ancient windmill, which just added to the mystery. We moved on, none the wiser.

Back towards the crossroads was a mass of abandoned shafts, trenches, and other miscellaneous diggings. All of this man-made interference was being swallowed by the bush, creating a surreal environment. Trees were growing out of shafts and on top of discarded piles of rock, as well as everywhere in between. An extraordinary place.

We followed a track up one of the ridges and parked Kermit in the shade. Michael was doubtful we'd find any metal of value to add to our collection, declining to bring his fossicking bag. Initially, he seemed to be correct. Again. There was almost nothing metallic left around this upended landscape. Not that we were any less excited. The ground itself was both stunning and challenging - full of rocks and boulders, with some beautiful white quartz here and there. Mining at Siberia would have been hazardous, back-breaking and often soul-destroying. The climate was not conducive to comfort - unbearably hot in summer and bitterly cold in winter. People died through lack of water or exposure, apart from those who didn't succumb to illness or injuries.

Michael was to regret leaving his bag in the car. As we ventured past the last of the shafts, we discovered the remains of their camps - tins of all sorts, water barrels, tools, implements, and trinkets. With only a solitary bag fit to burst, we carefully and gratefully made our way back to Kermit.

There was another part of the area we wished to explore. Now that Siberia's streetscape had been revealed to us on Google Earth, we were champing at the bit to find evidence of her residents. After a couple of false starts, we found a definite "road" that had run along the southern boundary of the town. We could see the wide streets, essential for the movement of horses and wagons. We pottered along these echoes of Siberia, discovering discarded and broken everyday items, Like everywhere in the Goldfields', Siberia's residents would have wasted nothing.

Shortly afterward, we called "time". We had been fossicking all morning and the unforgiving ground had taken its toll on our feet. We needed to return to our camp for a well-deserved rest.

We were totally unprepared for the scene of carnage that greeted us. We didn't need to guess the identity of the intruders. They had left incriminating evidence everywhere. Footprints were on the table, rubbish was strewn all about, the morning dishes were on the ground, our soap had been brutally and repeatedly pecked, the air pump box had been violated and its cord unravelled and attempts had been made to open the sugar container. Worst of all, the culprits had taken a liking to both my tea bags and hot chocolate sachets. They had raided my stash and consumed rather a lot. I hoped they were both dehydrated with bloated bellies for their crimes.

We had paid the price of our slack security. We had noted Russell and his missus casing the joint and they had taken full advantage of our absence. The moral of this story - never trust a pair of crows.

Cleaning up was both irksome and tiring. We slept the afternoon away. With the sun still warm, we took the opportunity for our first bucket bath of the trip. The spare tarp was laid out, the fire was stoked and the kettle filled to the brim and boiled for the occasion. the large basin took pride of place with the soap, flannel, towels and our fresh clothes all within easy reach on one of the chairs. We took turns splashing and sploshing the water all over us. Although not as cleansing as a shower, we were immensely satisfied with our impromptu bathroom set-up.

Dusk was jaw-dropping. And with the later moon rise, we were privileged to sit beneath a theatre of stars from horizon to horizon. The Milky Way was present in all her glory. We enjoyed our dinner and vino in front of the roaring fire, a hint of sandalwood delighting our noses.

And in spite of the crows' dastardly deeds, we'd had yet another marvellous day. This was living.



Warning - nudity


Bucket bath time!


Feeling rather pleased with myself post bath.



Late afternoon at Siberia.




Evening views.

Sunday, 6 November 2016

Catching Time

The greatest gift of this trip was time. Together and uninterrupted. At Siberia, we had no access to the internet and almost no mobile signal. Every now and then, usually around early evening, phone service would miraculously appear for a minute or so and then vanish back into cyberspace. Having become somewhat of an online creature of habit, I had found the absence of the World Wide Web surprisingly noticeable at first. After no communications interference for nearly three days, I was revelling again in the simplest of pleasures - the sighing and swaying of the Goldfields woodland, the chatter of the curious birds and the opportunity for sustained conversation with each other.

The previous evening had involved much discussion of our proposed house, "Station Cottage", which we planned to build behind the Gallery. We discovered, with some astonishment, that there had been unspoken misunderstandings about our next home.  These had been noted and solved, key features of the house's layout had been decided and we had even considered ways of  new income sources. And we had been able to achieve this exercise through unhurried and undisturbed time on our own.

We woke to a much warmer gazebo. The chill had retreated and we rose to a glorious and cloudless Goldfields sky with just enough breeze for our early morning comfort. Michael started Kermit to grind new coffee beans, using our inverter. Talk about slumming it. Our first cups of tea and coffee in our camp chairs were most satisfactory. And the air was moving just enough to keep the flying foes at bay, so sitting outside was still pleasurable.

Little birds flittered and twittered and beeped and sang all around us. We noticed, with much amusement and some apprehension, that Russell Crow and his missus had located our camp. They were watching us from a nearby tree and carrying on an extremely animated conversation. Michael tried his usual pointing a stick and "BANG" expression to no avail. The crows merely gave him a rather pitying look and returned to their discussion. We knew, from past experience, that these clever and cunning birds were Up To No Good. Plotting was clearly afoot. We would have to be very careful not to leave any tempting items about for them to destroy or steal.

In the meantime, we were looking exceedingly worse for wear. After two days without showers, predictable skirmishes with pointy bushes and sharp firewood, Michael was sporting an impressive array of scratches and scrapes on both his arms, whilst my feet appeared to have been stabbed with a very small blade. Repeatedly.

Our washing water container had reduced in volume and needed replenishment. The gas bottle was spluttering and burping. signalling near emptiness. And in that unexpected window of mobile coverage, we had arranged to meet Wayne Glasson, our Man in Kalgoorlie for lunch at Ora Banda. We were pretty sure that the Ora Banda Inn would have showers for filthy fossickers and maybe even gas for our bottle refill.

Michael set off for his morning ablutions. He was quite a while, but there was nothing particularly unusual about that. When he did return, he sheepishly confessed that he had left the toilet seat to engage in some quick investigation. His sense of direction failed him for once and he was most embarrassed. He knew the direction back to camp, but the toilet seat remained elusive for an unsettlingly lengthy period. Eventually, he recovered the errant toilet seat and walked back into camp to Tell All. I'm afraid I did laugh.

The day was taking shape. Michael was eager to clap his eyes on the "Linger and Die" abandoned mine. He just couldn't resist the name. I wanted to visit the Siberia cemetery. Then we would drive the twenty kilometres or so to Ora Banda and meet Wayne for lunch.

Oh, the great plans of mice and men rarely go smoothly. The old mine proved very difficult to find. We tried two different tracks that Michael had researched on Google Earth. We drove through some very inhospitable country and found precisely nothing. Not a skerrick of metal. On our way towards the crossroads, we detoured up a bone-shaking track to a huge open cut operation. Around the mine was devoid of vegetation and the only metal was a lonesome sea container, filled with dirt and rock, its doors seized in an open position. Was this place "Linger and Die"? Is so, it was decidedly depressing and none too welcoming. We left.

Siberia's cemetery was about as thrilling as the mine we'd failed to identify. Next, Michael tried to find Siberia's old boilers to show me. Absolutely no luck. Michael was quite adamant the boilers were where he remembered and the road route must have changed. I considered he might just have an over-inflated ego or have forgotten the location. He was most unimpressed by my opinion.

We decided to cut our losses and head for Ora Banda and hopefully, hot running water. We slowed down for Daddy Emu, out for a morning stroll with his chicks. Further along, we passed a rather menacing snake lying on the edge of the road. Unable to determine the state of its health, we stayed in Kermit. Michael took photos whilst I watched the snake for any movement or surprise attack. We were pretty sure he was very dead.

Ora Banda was closed. Bollocks. We wandered around the Inn for about fifteen minutes, but nobody materialised to welcome us. We were due to meet Wayne there for lunch and we were concerned by the absence of anyone at all. The day was not progressing well.

We had no mobile signal but there was a functioning pay phone on site. We rang Wayne's mobile, which went straight to his messagebank. We were left with few options. We needed water and gas and a shower so we started off in the direction of Kalgoorlie. Our hope was that we would see Wayne heading towards us and be able to flag him down.

Once in range, we reached Wayne on his mobile. He hadn't left Kalgoorlie and kindly offered the use of his home's facilities. Bliss. So, without further ado, we hot-footed ourselves and Kermit towards Civilisation.

Wayne's bathroom was a present from God. Actually, any reasonable bathroom would have done, but the showerhead was wide and generous and warm. Mountains of red were sluiced off our bodies. We washed our hair and brushed our teeth. I even shaved my legs. We washed each other's backs and luxuriated in the heavy stream of droplets. In clean clothes from undies to jeans, we looked decent enough to be seen in public once again.

Wayne declined our invitation for lunch. He was subdued and sore. Whilst driving at the local speedway on the weekend, he'd come to a sticky end and was rather bruised and battered. And he may have been feeling the stresses of modern life more acutely as a result. He had a day off but his wife Sam was at work. He had the TV and the cat as companions. He talked about some concerns in his life and he didn't seem satisfied with his work. Yet, here was a chap on a good salary package with an investment property and disposable income. Maybe time to just sit and be was missing. He and Sam led a fairly frenetic lifestyle and I doubted they would in each other's company and able to relax on a frequent basis.

We filled our water container from Wayne's front hose and took our leave of him. He was rather a sad and forlorn figure and we hoped his mood would lift as his body recovered.

On the way into Hannan Street, we bought a new gas bottle. Then lunch back at the Inner City Cafe. Sandwiches, tea and coffee for under fifteen dollars. An absolute bargain. Whilst we were seated for our meal, we checked the weather, bank accounts, Facebook and Google Earth. Better still, we were able to confirm that I was correct in my assertions of Siberia's actual location. Oh, sweet victory. Knowing my woeful sense of direction, Michael was rendered speechless and had to eat humble pie.

Milk, olive oil for our pasta dishes, beer and vino, snacks and two bags of ice completed necessary purchases. Just after four o'clock, we loaded the shopping, jumped into Kermit and headed away from the bright lights of the Big Smoke. Travelling up the bitumen, we passed the Gidgi Roaster, which was thankfully not operating and mine sites, some abandoned and some active and established. Paddington Mine, with its mullock heaps as far as the eye could see, struck me, again, with its monstrous proportions. And it was only one of many mining operations scattered over the length and breadth of the entire Goldfields.

We arrived back at Siberia with plenty of daylight still remaining. I busied myself with some minor domestic chores whilst Michael lit the fire. The moon didn't rise until after eight o'clock so we enjoyed dinner and vino under a breathtakingly starry sky. And then, being very tired, it was time for me to retire to bed.


The unexpected...


the somewhat scary...


the beautiful...


Making time. It's a gift.