Sunday, 19 December 2021

Topsy-Turvy Twists and Tumbles...

2021 has certainly been one for the record books. Covid 19 has continued its unpredictable course, wreaking periodic havoc on a wary and weary world. We have become familiar with terms such as Alpha, Delta and now Omicron. We have endured lockdowns, quarantine and testing stations. We watch the statistics with uneasy anticipation. Some have argued that Covid 19 does not exist and vaccines are either dangerous or should not be mandated. Truly the most complex circumstance I have faced in my life.

However, here in Western Australia, we have been cocooned from most of Covid 19's ravages. Our State Government Premier took the bold move to close Western Australia to the rest of the country, hopefully keeping the disease out. This tactic proved to be a resounding success and we have enjoyed considerable freedoms for the last eighteen months. The downside has been the separation of families, however the vast majority of the West has been supportive, despite the Prime Minister attempting to cause discord.

I am still ambivalent about the prospect of the State opening again on 5 February 2022. This will mean a return to mask wearing and other restrictions. Plus the inevitable outbreaks. Which means further worry about my family's health status, including my own. I hope, when re-opening occurs, that the community, health providers and government work collaboratively and proactively, minimise risk for everybody and provide supports and services, including financial, as needed.

The Covid 19 scenario mirrors the good, the bad and the ugly in every community. We have lived in Heavenly Beverley for nearly eleven years. When we arrived, at the end of the driest year on record, the town was grey and tired, the country was grey and depleted and the mood was grey and not particularly optimistic. Yet, we saw the beautiful Federation and Art Deco buildings, the potential for renewal and the promise of the community to recover, literally and figuratively. We began our own resurrection at the House that Rocks. We began watering a patch of faint green at the bottom of our back ramp, whilst planting trees and shrubs. Within three months, the dustbowl had turned to park land. We renovated our dinky little cottage. By the time we left, after six years, the gardens were lush, providing habitat for all native creatures and shady oases across half an acre. 

We have met and befriended many quirky and eclectic fellow residents, most searching for that sense of  community often sadly lacking in suburbia. We have watched with pride and awe the regeneration of Beverley into a town with her own identity (Be Very Beverley) and the potential to become the ultimate welcoming regional centre.

In recent times, I have been sadly disappointed in some aspects of life in Beverley. Friendships reluctantly ended. Petty robberies - clothes off our washing line, a phone stolen out of a parked car, chairs from a backyard. Less than convivial communication. Self interest rather than benefitting of the entire community. These instances rattled me and caused me to question my faith in the goodwill of our town. Had we all become so focused on ourselves due to Covid 19? Or was the pandemic just masking innate selfishness that had always existed?

Then, the magic happened. A kindly benefactor who wishes to remain anonymous has offered to fund new bras for me. My darling friend Jan turned up with three crop tops and a brightly coloured frock. Mick brought me a lavender to replace the one that turned up its toes. Jodie gave me some cheerful costume jewellery and a pear crumble. My Facebook buddies have sent messages of love. From feeling violated, I have been consumed by support and affection. How lucky am I!

These random acts of kindness are the essence of every successful community, regional or metropolitan. Warm fuzzies all round. Our primary focus should be acting in the best interests of all. To be a nurturing and inclusive community that genuinely has the needs of everybody utmost in our thinking. That relies on input from local government agencies, retail outlets, tourism and other services and residents. All working together for the benefit of Heavenly Beverley.

How about it, people?


Back in January 2011, we went to the Hotel Beverley - first dinner...


Beverley Station, Gallery and Platform Theatre...


Town Hall


Beverley Bed and Breakfast...


Still one of the best caravan parks in the Wheatbelt...


Yenyening Lakes...


Vincent Street (main drag)...


Old courthouse, now the local gym...


Had my bra fitting in Northam last week. Pontificating how to pay for them...


Then, a series of minor miracles!


What we should all practise - everyday...


Yeah baby!

And if you can't be kind, do not be a dick!


 



Tuesday, 14 December 2021

And Just Like That, Miss Imogen Ivy Is Two Years Old!

2021 has been like an unbroken horse, docile and controllable for one moment and then furiously snorting, galloping away madly and bucking wildly with no warning whatsoever in the next second.

The National Disability Insurance Agency continues to bamboozle and confound me with long and confusing documents. I have just received a reply for access to the inner machinations of the Agency in relation to Alex's most recent plan. At fifty-four pages in length, I gave up reading and instead sent an email to Shannon, our invaluable Support Coordinator. Out of the goodness of their heart, the NDIA funded twenty-four hours of Support Coordination over three years. In eight weeks, Shannon has used half of these precious hours...I am so bloody grateful for her services and so terrified that we will not be funded for the additional Support Coordination that Alex and I so desperately need.

I have been unfriended by my daughter. Why? I really have few clues.

I have had to unfriend another person who is skilled at returning the conversation to her own incredible insights and my hysterical failings.

I have been invited and uninvited to a sixtieth birthday... four times.

I am having mixed results with my much anticipated CPAP machine. This week, I have frequently woken with a mouth that is glued shut and my mask continues to be somewhat problematic sealing around my nose and mouth. Last night, I was only able to tolerate the mask for five hours, so my sleep was fragmented and my apnoea episodes increased. Yet, I am determined to persevere and have gained a long term loan of an older machine that can be set up to my requirements. With Batman graphics!

My darling Michael continues to hobble with his moonboot. His hips are being affected by the weird gait caused by this device and he still has considerable pain as each day wears on. Plus he has to contend with a cranky and sleep deprived wife. Lucky him...

In the midst of all this chaos, we were privileged to attend our absolutely magic Grand Toddler's second birthday. Where has the time gone? I am convinced she was actually only born some time last week. We turned the event into an overnight getaway - staying with our beloved friend Ailsa in her suburban sanctuary and only having to drive ten minutes on a Sunday morning, rather than two hours. Ailsa, a domestic goddess of incredible talent, fired me from the tasks of creating curried egg sandwiches and wrapping Immy's presents. I heaved a sigh of relief and accepted her directives without a whimper.

For twenty four precious hours, we were transported out of our usual routine. The indestructible Gracie Courtney manned the Gallery for us and created a series of paper Christmas tree decorations that I have dotted around the space. We are so lucky to have such amazing friends who genuinely care for us, warts and all.

Immy is growing into a particularly beautiful little girl. With her head of curls, her bluest of eyes, her long legs and her cheeky personality, Immy was the star of her own show. Besotted with Blippi at present, she is also intensely curious about the world around her. She loves her Mummy and Daddy, her besotted grandparents (there are six of us), her great grandparents, including Ivy - the second star of the show - daycare, parks, her fabulous assemblage of play activities and even Ragnar, the resident psychotic Ragdoll cat. She was at ease with her party and all the attendees, leading us on a merry dance across the grass, to the playground and back again. Her daddy, my fabulous Callum didn't even turn a hair as I released her down the slide without any qualms. I was initially horrified at this action as she literally flew off the bottom into the sandpit. Much to my relief, she climbed to her feet, shook herself off and proceeded to repeat the exercise with unbridled glee. She only wilted towards the end of the festivities and fell asleep in her pram as the beckoning of her nap time overcame her. 

I am very much looking forward to our Christmas/New Year break. We close the East End Gallery for 2021 on Christmas Eve. January will be by appointment only until we reopen for 2022 on Australia Day. In the meantime, I am hanging out for the two nights with Cal, Bron and Miss Immy from 28 - 30 December when we celebrate a slightly belated Christmas, spend time with our Autistic Superstar Alex and annoy Ragnar with Stella and Pip's presence. Jodi with be in attendance to water our pots and tend to Chop and Suey's needs.

I can't wait. I am looking forward to my first Babycino with Immy in a stylish establishment, plenty of fun and a chance to assist Cal and Bron in everyday tasks. Bliss is coming!


With Mummy and Daddy...


All things Blippi...


With Ivy...


Ivy embracing her inner Blippi...


Rock on, Ivy!


With Grampy and Daddy...


With Mummy...


Grampy...


Leading us all on a merry dance...


There! Hat on...








With her birthday cupcake (Blippi coloured)...


Going...going...


The Blippi birthday girl gone to sleep.


Monday, 6 December 2021

Hoo-Haa, Balderdash and Hypocrisy...

I still miss my darling Dad every day. His birthday is tomorrow and had he lived, he would have been turning ninety-seven. He was a tolerant, gentle and learned man. He rarely swore or engaged in any form of abuse. He loved language and introduced me to the world of words. Had he still been alive, I suspect he would be horrified at the descent of conversations and messages into name calling exercises on platforms such as Facebook. I still feel his presence keenly and I try very hard to emulate him in my writing and not disappoint him.

Covid 19 appears to have raised the stakes in how awful people can be to each other. Civil discussion and the ability to accept dissenting views whilst still being able to debate them is not being practised. Instead, taunting, name calling and abuse has increasingly replaced calm and coherent conversations.

We are all guilty. Just consider the current crop of Australian pollies. There are precious few of them with the expansive eloquence that should be required in parliament. The current Prime Minister is a skilled artist in rejection, diversion or ignorance of any discussion he dislikes. I pity those behind the scenes tasked with negotiation on the world stage. Their masters behave like a badly educated and unruly bunch of nincompoops. God help us all.

I have just blocked a former friend on Facebook. I have become increasingly appalled at the gutter level of most of her interactions. When challenged by any view she does not like, the personal abuse, the lack of understanding and empathy and her intense desire to always have the last word dictate both face-to-face and online engagement. She loves to criticise others, whilst failing to act proactively on her own issues. I am done with her.

Recently, there has been much discussion in the media about the latest Coronavirus variant. Omicron. I am rather amused by this term. I have visions of a mad scientist with this name huddling in the bowels of KAOS ready to do his worst. Please, let's maintain our humour during these trying times.

However, I am mystified by the reactions of some anti-vaccine advocates. In this country, the vaccine has yet to be mandated for the entire population. Yet, the outcry of being forced to submit to the vaccine continues. People have choice, but face consequences in those professions that are required to be fully vaccinated. Having a car license means following the road rules. Those who don't may endure uninvited consequences. Using toilets, either public or private, is actually a choice and most people use the facilities rather than just evacuating where and when they wish. There are consequences in you are caught poohing in public. In the animal kingdom, consider the actions of any group. A lioness doesn't announce she isn't going to hunt with the pride on any given day because she needs to have her nails done. 

Those of us who have been received childhood vaccines, or a tetanus  injection following an injury or the flu jab before winter don't partake in demonstrations regarding the unfairness or validity of these actions. We undertake these measures to protect ourselves and others. The fools that cry foul about childhood vaccinations (without good reasons) have obviously never seen a baby with Whooping Cough or a child or adult battling Post Measles Encephalitis, which almost universally ends with death.

Yet, I would still defend the rights of those with differing opinions. What I do not defend is the bombardment of false news, obscure data and unrelenting mistruths that are peddled for somebody else's satisfaction. Question everything, but be discerning. Knowledge is power.  Insinuation is nasty. Hysteria is pointless. Abuse is usually unwarranted. Use common sense. Try not to be a hypocrite. 

We are holding the last of our Famous Sundowners for 2021 on 11 December. I have stated our position for all attendees. We will not be asking for your Covid 19 vaccination status. What we would ask is if anyone has any symptom of any disease, please stay away.

By the way, sneezing is not necessarily a sign of illness. Harvest around Heavenly Beverley is causing a crescendo of allergic reactions, which is perfectly normal at this time of year.

Till next time.


My darling Dad and I - 6.12.1980


Words matter, people!




Points to consider whilst engaging with any other human being...


Clear communication is important!


My initial reaction to the Coronavirus outbreak...


Try not to hasten your own or others...



My frustration at the diminishment of the language pool being used...


Very useful to remember...


Monday, 29 November 2021

Oh, My Giddy Aunt! Chop and Suey Are All Grown Up

Early this year, our very elderly and much beloved apricot, grey and white tabby cat Ruby passed to her final resting place. Wherever cats go. Ruby had become slower and sleepier as she grew to a great age. Due to her galloping blood pressure, she had become blind in one eye. Along with dodgy kidneys (a common affliction in senior cats) and a swaying undercarriage, Ruby continued to live far beyond what we considered to be her age limit. However, one morning we made the decision to end her existence on the planet as she had grown skeletal and weary.

I missed her terribly. Not that she'd really been my cat. Callum was her first love, followed closely by Michael. She had a busy life - a kitten in Karrinyup, moving to Queensland and back again, stints in Marangaroo and the House that Rocks before entering her twilight years at Station House. I really wanted to have another kitten once more.

Our Veterinarian to the Stars, Graeme Penno provided me with a possible solution to my kitten craving. A phlebotomist named Tonya had been caring for feline brothers that she had saved from almost certain death. Four months old in March, she was offering them free of charge. They had been vaccinated and sterilised and had been named Chop (due to his shortened tail) and Fury. I accepted the challenge of becoming their slave with alacrity.

Renamed Chop and Suey, the boys have become an integral part of our household. Pip, our sixteen-year-old Jack Russell tolerates them. Stella has a full time lover in Chop, who adores her and will rub himself enthusiastically on any part of her anatomy. She has responded with confused resignation that this small black and white intruder has taken to her with undying affection. Chop also takes every opportunity to sprawl across the floor, reminding me rather uncomfortably of the Sphinx.

Suey, on the other hand, plays his cards very close to his chest. He has only recently learnt to hold his ground with Stella and is not adverse in giving her the old one-two if she pushes the envelope a tad far. Pure black with startlingly golden eyes, Suey enjoys all of life's luxuries - our bed during the day, the bath mat at night. Suey's true personality is on show whenever either of us sit on the loo when he will appear out of nowhere and demand a body rub, whilst producing a purr that rivals a steam engine.

The boys also enjoy play fighting with each other and have explored the courtyard and beyond. Now responding well to their names, we bring them inside at night so they do not prey on any wildlife. They have also begun appearing on the laneway as we come home from a walk. This was a lifelong trait of Ruby's and I do hope the boys keep this habit too.

Fortunately, like Ruby, they seem content with dry food most of the time. However, totally the opposite to her, they adore wet food so that has become a extra culinary delight now and again. They share the same bowl which makes feeding easy and I have recently discovered that a pair of pottery dishes work well as their water bowls. However, Suey in particular, prefers running water as his ultimate treat, so we usually end up turning on the tap to a trickle if we are in the bathroom or kitchen.

Michael, initially hesitant about the kittens has grown to love them and enjoy their entertainment value. Chop has taken to sleeping in the boudoir with us, along with Stella and Pip, so occasionally the bed is rather crowded at night. He quite likes nibbling Michael's toes if he wiggles them. Suey has only joined us there on very cold nights. He is much more the Cat who walks by Himself.

Stay tuned for the boys' ongoing adventures. They recently turned one. Their coats have remained short and although bigger than Ruby, they are not huge creatures capable of inflicting major injury , they have become Stella's playmates (although Suey is still hesitant) and they have fitted exceeding well into our world. May the boys' lives be long and mischievous.

Chop - February 2021

Fury/Suey - February 2021


Suey - March 2021


In the bathroom...


Looking out - March 2021


Exploring together


Suey with Ducky...


 A Chop sprawl...


Chop's invasion...






Suey preventing the ironing being done...


The boys - late April 2021




Chop and Stella - November 2021





Meanwhile, with Suey on the bathmat - November 2021


Suppose I'd better get up...